I forgot to tell you i got scolded badly by someone on Christmas Eve, just cause i got caught up so badly in Christmas and missed out on something for this person, hmmmph (consequences not dire at all from whatever perspective i take)! Funny thing is, this was the worst scolding i got since a long time, plus it wasnt from a loved one or family (my family or real friend would never say such things to me) and not surprisingly, i couldn't remotely care ( or at least care more than i do) . Being one to defend my opinions rather fiercely, saying whatever wasnt like me at all and kinda dampened the spirits of that person. C'mon its christmas DONA NOBIS PACEM, peace to the world, quit being angry man.

and to the strange people adding me on facebook - i usually send out a message to those whose names do not ring any bell in my head, however dense the holidays make it - "Im sorry, i dont think i know you, but then again my memory is quite bad" - IF WE ARENT FRIENDS, the most logical answer you should give A: "oops sorry, wrong person!". acceptable B- "ok i get it, sorry to trouble!". Wrong answer C: "hmmm, was thinking if we could make friends after this?" Totally unacceptable answer D: "Is that a problem? too atas ah?".
ok i could actually do this catalogue, because all these answers really did come back to me. Actually, you can try any of this, you wont get a reply nor an accept. Facebook > Friendster for a reason!

Cheers to the holidays, and hopefully everyone, including me, keeps growing brains!=D